When I first proposed to my wife the last thing on my mind at the time was that I was going to have to stand up in front of a room packed full of friends, family and work colleagues and make a groom wedding speech.
Of course, it was at the back of my mind, but it wasn't really something I was too worried about. That was until 3 weeks before the big day. I had been to a couple of weddings in the past where the groom wedding speech wasn't really that good, and it had ended up being quite a talking point later in the evening amongst everyone at the wedding.
In fact, at one of the weddings I had been to, the groom wedding speech lasted less than a minute, and we couldn't understand a single word he was saying because he was so nervous. He had mumbled his way through 45 seconds of total anxiety, and eventually raised his glass, quietly toasted his bride, and then sat down. The audience just sat in total awkward silence for about 10 seconds after that. I actually feel sorry for the guy just remembering it.
So with those memories fresh in my mind, I was determined not to share the same fate as those guys.
The one thing I would recommend to any guy that has to make a groom wedding speech, would be to make sure you get your hands on some quality groom wedding speech examples which are written by professionals.
This was without a doubt, the best thing I did. Why you ask?
Well having these examples to work from took all the pressure off me. Up until that point, I honestly didn't have a clue where to start with my speech. I didn't know how to open, I didn't have any jokes to use, and I certainly didn't know how to make a wedding toast.
By reading through a few of these groom wedding speech examples, I quickly started to pick up a good feel for what a wedding speech entailed. I worked a couple of the funny jokes they had into my opening few lines which was a winner with the audience. This by the way is a great way to open any speech, because it helps settle the mood a little and get everyone relaxed.
After working through each for the examples, I had some really great ideas to work with. I had compiled a list of the exact structure a wedding speech should follow, and knew exactly where and when to toast my bride and her parents. My toast went down very well with her parents and the audience seemed to find it a lovely gesture.
All in all, my groom wedding speech went down like a house on fire. I had the audience eating out of my hand and by the end of it they were laughing at the parts I didn't even mean to be funny.
If you're stuck with the terrifying task of creating a speech, make sure you get some examples to work through.
It was the best thing I did for sure, and you won't be sorry that you did.
So what if you are really anxious and nervous because you have to deliver a big wedding speech? Well what you need to do is make sure you take a look at our wedding speeches site which even has best man speech examples as well. Make sure you take a look to put your mind at rest.
Of course, it was at the back of my mind, but it wasn't really something I was too worried about. That was until 3 weeks before the big day. I had been to a couple of weddings in the past where the groom wedding speech wasn't really that good, and it had ended up being quite a talking point later in the evening amongst everyone at the wedding.
In fact, at one of the weddings I had been to, the groom wedding speech lasted less than a minute, and we couldn't understand a single word he was saying because he was so nervous. He had mumbled his way through 45 seconds of total anxiety, and eventually raised his glass, quietly toasted his bride, and then sat down. The audience just sat in total awkward silence for about 10 seconds after that. I actually feel sorry for the guy just remembering it.
So with those memories fresh in my mind, I was determined not to share the same fate as those guys.
The one thing I would recommend to any guy that has to make a groom wedding speech, would be to make sure you get your hands on some quality groom wedding speech examples which are written by professionals.
This was without a doubt, the best thing I did. Why you ask?
Well having these examples to work from took all the pressure off me. Up until that point, I honestly didn't have a clue where to start with my speech. I didn't know how to open, I didn't have any jokes to use, and I certainly didn't know how to make a wedding toast.
By reading through a few of these groom wedding speech examples, I quickly started to pick up a good feel for what a wedding speech entailed. I worked a couple of the funny jokes they had into my opening few lines which was a winner with the audience. This by the way is a great way to open any speech, because it helps settle the mood a little and get everyone relaxed.
After working through each for the examples, I had some really great ideas to work with. I had compiled a list of the exact structure a wedding speech should follow, and knew exactly where and when to toast my bride and her parents. My toast went down very well with her parents and the audience seemed to find it a lovely gesture.
All in all, my groom wedding speech went down like a house on fire. I had the audience eating out of my hand and by the end of it they were laughing at the parts I didn't even mean to be funny.
If you're stuck with the terrifying task of creating a speech, make sure you get some examples to work through.
It was the best thing I did for sure, and you won't be sorry that you did.
So what if you are really anxious and nervous because you have to deliver a big wedding speech? Well what you need to do is make sure you take a look at our wedding speeches site which even has best man speech examples as well. Make sure you take a look to put your mind at rest.
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